For 32 years, the door to Ms. Zurinam’s office was always open. Students who had just arrived in the United States, some not yet knowing a word of English, found an advocate on their side. Now, as she prepares to retire, the FDR community is taking a moment to look back at the counselor who made so many feel like they belonged.
Q: What made you want to become a school counselor, and why did you choose to stay at this school for so long?
A: “When I was in the fifth grade, several school counselors visited my classroom. Seeing the work they did made a huge impression on me, and right then, I knew I wanted to do the same thing when I grew up.
As for staying here, it is entirely because of the people. I serve as the counselor for our ENL (English as a New Language) students, working with teenagers who speak a beautiful diversity of languages, including Russian, Ukrainian, Tajik, Uzbek, and many others. I am deeply moved by students who need that extra support; I simply cannot look away when I see someone struggling. For many new families arriving in the United States, adjusting can be incredibly difficult. I wanted to make a real difference and ensure they knew right away that there are always people here ready to welcome and help them.”
Q: How has the role of a school counselor changed since you first started?
A: “Over the years, I’ve found myself helping students navigate deeper challenges with depression, isolation, and loneliness. As technology and smartphones became popular year after year, people became more independent, but also more disconnected. We don’t see the same close, tight-knit student friendships today that we used to see. Everyone has become a bit more closed off, and many feel truly lonely. Because of that, they come to my office just needing someone to talk to, sharing their deepest thoughts and feelings. The need for human connection has grown so much.”
Q: What is one student success story that has stayed with you throughout your career?
A: “I once worked with twin brothers who were experiencing homelessness and sleeping outside. Watching them grow up has been one of the greatest privileges of my life. Today, one of them serves as an advisor in the White House! He is successful, has his own home, and has accomplished so much.
To me, their story proves that anything is possible. He struggled immensely in his youth, but I kept motivating him, and he stayed driven by the belief that everything would eventually be alright. You just have to believe in the future, and things will fall into place in the best way possible. I am extraordinarily proud of him and wish him nothing but the best in life.”
Q: What are you most proud of during your time here?
A: “I am incredibly proud of my students. Seeing them come to the US without knowing a word of English and starting a completely new chapter of their lives is deeply inspiring. Even when it’s hard, they try their absolute best to learn, improve, and grow. I truly love their ambition and the immense effort they put into their futures every single day.”
Q: What advice would you give to someone who wants to become a school counselor?
A: “Go for it! Have fun with it. You will never know what you can achieve until you try.”
Q: What will you miss most about working here, and what are you looking forward to in retirement?
A: “I am going to miss the people terribly, the students, my wonderful colleagues, and everyone I’ve crossed paths with here at FDR.
In my retirement, I am really looking forward to spending quality time with my grandkids. I also want to dive into my art, spend time at the beach, travel, and continue learning music. I play the piano and want to advance my skills so I can earn my second-level plate license!”
Q: If you could send one message to every student who ever walked through your door, what would it say?
A: “Never settle. You are enough. You are loved. Never be afraid to take that next step.”
Ms. Zurinam, sitting down with you for this interview reminded me of just how lucky FDR has been to have you for 32 years. Thank you for sharing your stories, your wisdom, and your heart with us. You have spent decades making sure every student who walked through your door feel seen, loved, and capable of anything. Thank you for everything you have done for our school community, I am sure all of your students feel the exact same way as me. We will miss you immensely, and we wish you the absolute happiest retirement!”